Public, Private, or Homeschool part 3

Your child’s education is a serious matter and investment in their future. Today in this final post of comparison, we will address homeschool as well as a summary of your choices. If you have not read part 1 or part 2, I invite you to do so by clicking on the link. In the chance that you may have any questions or comments, please send those to deacon@thedadmanual.com 

Homeschool to me is like gravity. I have seen its results, but I am not one that can do more than to report on what I have experienced with those in the field. Most of those that I know who have chosen homeschool have a history with it or have tackled the task as a result of their desire to keep their children out of the public education system. Most of those that have an academic plan catered to them do see many benefits. Those that I have encountered are particularly bright as well as inventive. 

On the downside, I have noticed a struggle with many of these students to navigate social circles unless they are part of a co-op that keeps the students engaged in group activities such as the arts and sports. It appears that the more social interaction that they acquire, the better they do in future endeavors. 

The only other downside that I can see with homeschool is the struggle that they may encounter in being accredited, thus enabling the students to be able to merge directly in a four-year college should they seek to do so without the transition of junior college. However, many of these programs have and are changing to benefit these students as well as others with alternative education documentation.

Every educational system will have its pros and cons. There is no such thing as a perfect situation when it comes to this topic. The best thing that you can do is to complete your due diligence. Educate yourself. One of the dumbest things that dads can do is to assume that we know it all. We are living in changing times. Not only is education like it was when you were young, but your kids are not just a mini version of you. You are your kid’s primary advocate, not the system. “They” do not know what is best for your child, nor do I. You do. This means that much of the responsibility is yours.

Fortunately for us today, we have the technology, information, and answers at our fingertips. Much of the information that you need is online. However, you must remember that online information is NOT unbiased. This information must be put there by individuals. These individuals are doing so with a purpose. They are either trying to promote a program or tear it down. Both of these should be taken with a grain of salt. Don’t hang your hat on all that you read.

You need to compare information and consider the source, especially when it comes to rating the program. As I posted earlier, ratings are the most subjective bits of info that you can read. Those that praise and give five stars are usually associated with the organization. Those that slam organizations can be isolated cases or just a disgruntled former employee or parent that discovered that junior was not the genius angel that promoted him to be. Most of the negative press that I read concerning the organization that I worked for over twelve years came from one of three sources. 1. A parent of a child that got kicked out due to behavior 2. A former student that was mad for being expelled 3. Or the disgruntled former employee. This does not represent a general consensus. It represents those with an ax to grind.

After you take information with a grain of salt, interviews, and face to face encounters are a must. Gather information from other parents, as well as meet school officials. I recommend developing a list of questions or concerns. After you research these questions online, take them to the school administration. Many parents may feel awkward about scheduling such meetings. You have to get over this and remember that this is for your child. 

In conclusion, I would not rate one particular form of education over another. There is however one that is best suited for your child and your family situation. It ultimately comes down to knowing the facts and making a decision. They need your involvement regardless of what you decide. Be a part of the journey. Be the best dad possible.

Deacon  

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